Mi persona ideal:
Quote from movie "Patch Adams": “All of life is a ‘coming home.’ Salesmen, secretaries, coal miners, bee keepers, sword swallowers, all of us…all the restless hearts of the world…all trying to find a way home. Picture yourself walking for days in a driving snow. You don’t even know you’re walking in circles. The heaviness of your legs in the drifts…your shouts disappearing in the wind…how far away home can be. “Home”…the dictionary defines it as both a place of origin and a goal or destination.
…Or as Dante put it, “In the middle of the journey of my life,
I found myself in a dark wood, for I had lost the right path.”
…I look out my bedroom window at the caterpillars. I envy them so much. No matter what they were before, or what happened to them…they could just hide away and turn into these beautiful creatures that could fly away completely…untouched.”

I just want to come "HOME"...to feel like I have a home, with a loving partner there that won't hurt me anymore. I want a husband to repect and adore me as much as I do him...as I do the people in my life. I want someone who isn't so consumed with himself, that demanding and controlling aren't a part of his personality traits. I have a B.A. in Psychology, and after all of the many essays were written, after all the books were read, after all the lectures were listened to...most of our troubles...aside from pathology (disease), is from the way people treat each other...from people not being KIND. So simple, yet so hard to find.

Quote from movie "Meet Joe Black" (my adaptation): “I've seen all kinds and degrees of deception in my time, but [she] has been on the receiving end of machinations so Machiavellian that it has rarely been my experience to encounter. [They’re] the poison...[They’ve] operated behind-the-scenes to suborn the trust of a [woman] who has stamped [them] with [her] imprimatur of class and elegance and stature. And yet, [she] has combatted them stoically, and selflessly... [Had, she given up, Her] task [could] have been far easier, [she] could have turned defeat into victory, but [she] is too honorable a [woman] to have done that. Because of [them], [she] has lost [her] work, [her] company, [her] reputation.”
"You can write me down in history with hateful lies, you can tread me in this very dirt, but still, like dust, I'll rise."
I want a man who will treat me like the GOOD woman that I am, for the rest of my life. No more abuse. I am a pushover, an easy target, a marshmallow, a cream puff, a sissy, 100% girl...and I don't want to give up on the male gender or life as a couple. It gets tiring doing everything alone. I want to "Kiss Lonely Goodbye"! Would like to start out being companions, having fun, and getting to know each other. But life is too short to play a bunch of games, and act like we're not in this for the long run.